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Couple counselling/marriage counselling in Reading & Wokingham

Couples and partners often find themselves caught in a vicious circle of fights, struggles and tears around the same pattern of behaviours in their couples/partnership. The man finds that despite cleaning up his wife/partner still find something to critisize or coment on…..the woman finds that despite trying her best to dress up her husband/partner never gives that compliment that would make her feel wanted and beautiful. There are thousands of these little expectations and hopes that make a couple and can destroy a couple.

Couple counselling/marriage counselling becomes necessary when both partners are finding themselves caught up in the same vicious circle and having tried self-help books, holidays, expensive gifts and even self-determination they are still saught into the same drama in their relationship. The husband finds that he wishes to trust his wife but is calling her every two hours to check on her which affects the woman and creates distrust and anger in the relationship; the wife finds that she wishes to be less critical but as soon as she enters the house she notices the sock lying around, the books stacked around rather than remembering it is her birthday….

All these can create issues such as jealousy in couples, mistrust in couples, anger/aggression in couples, fear in couples, lack of communication or miscommunication in couples, fights in couples etc…. couple counselling provides a safe and relaxed environment where the counsellor aims to be the reflective mirror where both partners can look at their relationship again and secondly the counsellor is there to keep them on target, help them stay on the path to their goals and set up exercises to get them to their goals as a couple.

Amreeta Chapman is trained as a Psychologist/clinical Hypnotherapist and solution focused therapist. She has a background of working with domestic and child abuse and having worked with severe disturbances in families and couples she has now experience and skills to help her clients be they couples or parent-child relationship. She has a solution focused approach that aims to help clients get to their goals within 8-10 sessions and reassures clients they do not need to spend months/years trying to get their relationship working healthily and communicatively.

For more information visit her website : www.readingpsychotherapyandcounselling.co.uk or email her with your specific query about your relationship on amreeta@innerpotential.info as well as call her on 0118 926 9978.

Amreeta is an Associate Member of  the BACP, Member of the BSCH, GHR as well as Member of the NHS Directory of Complementary therapists.